Do you suspect that your man is having an affair?
Do you need to know what signs of a cheating husband you should be on the lookout for?
Well then you’ve come to the right place!
In this article were going to talk about some of the most commonly overlooked signs of a cheating husband that you, as a woman, are likely to miss.
You see, men and women just operate differently.
There’s no denying that we’ve got different circuitry when it comes to the world of love (which also includes the world of infidelity).
So, when you’re looking to find out for sure what your husband is doing behind your back, it’s a good thing that you’re taking some time to research exactly what signs of an unfaithful husband you should be on the lookout for.
So give yourself a pat on the back!
You’re already doing a good thing just by visiting this page.
Now, enough introduction. Let’s get down to the nitty gritty…
Let’s get down to the actual signs of cheating that you can use detect what your husband is doing behind your back.
5 Common Signs of a Cheating Husband
Most of these are actually surprisingly common signs of cheating, but you probably wouldn’t have thought of them yourself.
A Close Friend Starts Giving You A Weird Vibe
Did you ever hear on the news about how often times when a child is kidnapped it’s usually someone that the victims know personally?
Well, the same thing is true with infidelity. Many times it is someone that you have already met, or someone that your husband has already known before meeting you.
So, if you are suspicious of your husband because one of your friends gave you a weird vibe, or said something slightly out of place, then make sure that you take note of that. Chances are that they either know something about, or worst case they ARE, the one that your husband is cheating on you with.
He Changes the Password on his Email Account
Even if you don’t actually share email accounts, it’s fair to say that most of the time spouses at the very least share their account passwords of each other.
I mean let’s face it, we’ve all have those moments where we needed to check our e-mail, but the only person close to a computer was our spouse. It happens, and when it does we willingly give our spouse/partner any password needed to our account.
So, if you DO know your spouse’s email account password, go ahead and try it out… See if it still works.
If it doesn’t, think about the last time that you would have used the password to track your spouse’s email, either secretly or because they asked you to.
If you know for a fact that your husband is not the type to change his password unless he had a reason to, then it could definitely be a sign of cheating that you can’t access his email.
He Starts Wanting More Sex
If your husband is committing adultery, then your intuition may be telling you that he should start wanting LESS sex, not more. However, while sometimes true, this is certainly NOT always the case.
Hear me out:
We can all agree that sex is something they can be addictive, especially in men. While I don’t necessarily agree with the concept of “sex addiction” compared to something like alcoholism or a legitimate drug addiction, I would still say that sex can be addictive.
In other words, if your husband goes from having sex very rarely, like once a month or less, to having sex fairly frequently (But not TOO frequently), like once or twice a week, then guess what…
Your husband is going to start wanting MORE SEX from YOU.
Well, a sleeker be a number of reasons. It could be that he’s beginning to feel a sense of entitlement when it comes to sex. It could be that once or twice a week is not enough for him. It could be that his sex drive has been “awakened” by his adultery.
Basically, it could be any reason. But one thing is for sure…If your spouse is meeting any of the criteria for other signs of a cheating husband laid out here, then his requests / begging for more sex from you should be taken very, very carefully.
He Gets Really Into a New Hobby
Depending on the type of man your husband is, he may or may not start picking up hobbies from his lover.
If you can remember your husband as being some one who generally has adopted the hobbies of his ex-girlfriends in the past, and you start to notice him doing it well could be the same thing now, than for the love of God, BE ON YOUR GUARD!
This is one of the most commonly overlooked signs of a cheating husband. In fact, sometimes it’s looked at by the wife as a good thing… You’re just so happy that your husband is out there trying new things and developing new hobbies…
Nope. Wrong. He’s probably cheating, or at least interested in another woman.
So look at any of your husband’s recently started hobbies or pastimes… Ask yourself:
“Is this something I would expect my husband to become interested in naturally? Or do I think that he is acting from an outside influence, such as another woman?”
Your answer to this question could be all that you need to justify the move from suspicion to actively trying to catch your husband cheating.
You Find a Small Trinket or Gift that YOU DID NOT GIVE HIM
This is without a doubt one of my favorite signs of a cheating husband, not because I love small trinkets, but because this is both extremely powerful AND something that’s rarely noticed by the victim spouse.
You see, many times when your husband is going through an affair, it will be natural for him to revert to his high school or college tendencies. He will become daring, bold, and sometimes, depending on your man, he won’t be afraid to carry a small reminder of the other woman.
Just imagine this:
Your husband is having lots of fun with another woman… They meet in a hotel, fool around a bit, drink some beers and then maybe they head over to steak n’ shake afterwards for a post-coital burger.
…You might be laughing, but this is what happens, so stay with me.
Now while they’re eating their burgers, the other woman notices a quarter machine selling friendship bracelets. On the way out the door, as your husband is paying for their food, she goes over to the quarter machine and buys two little crappy friendship bracelets.
She hands one to your husband, and says “You don’t have to wear it, but keep it with you to remind you of me, and I’ll keep mine to remind me of you.”
Hopefully you can see where this is going…
Basically what I’m telling you to do here is to keep your eyes peeled for any little small gifts that you might think nothing about, but really they’re from the other woman. He could be a little plastic ring, it could be a friendship bracelet, it could be a little toy figurine, it could be a room key, it could be a normal key…
It could be anything! But there is SOMETHING. Almost always there’s something. And once you find it you’ll know.
How Do I Find Physical Proof
of a Cheating Husband?
Well, this is where things get tricky. I mean, there is are reason that private investigators do so well for themselves. There are thousands of women all over the country who are in dire need of help finding out the truth about what their husband is to behind their back. It’s tragic, but it’s true.
But guess what…You don’t need a private investigator to find out the truth.
Nope, not even a little bit. You can easily learn how to catch your husband cheating.
How to Get Proof of a Cheating Husband
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Whatever you do from here, I wish you the best of luck.
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