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How to Tell if Your Wife is Cheating
Do you want to know exactly how to tell if your wife is cheating on you?
By the time you’re finished reading this article you’ll be much closer to the truth about what she’s doing behind your back. You’ll know all the tell-tale signs of an affair, and what you can do about them.
However, I am going to ask you to do me a favor.
For the next few minutes, while you finish reading this article we’re going to assume that your wife IS in fact cheating on you.
The reason for this is because you’ll be much more likely to notice signs of her infidelity as long as you assume she’s cheating. If you don’t then you’ll likely spend your time wondering about her faithfulness instead of spending time getting proof, like you should be.
By the end of this article you’ll know:
- Why you need to recognize the differences between men and women
- What reasons she has for cheating on you
- How to catch her cheating and get Cold Hard Proof of the affair
Men Vs. Women
What You Didn’t Know About Your Wife
Men cheat differently than women. This is the first thing I tell guys that come to me frantically asking “how to tell if my wife is cheating” and stuff like that…It’s important to take a breath, step back, and take a fresh perspective on the situation.
So here’s what I was saying…Each gender typically follows a distinct pattern of behavior during an affair, and the way a cheating man acts is a lot different than the way a cheating women acts. So if you’re assuming wife has cheated because she’s doing the same things you would do, just hold your horses for a second.
Men typically cheat for sexual reasons…They’re much more likely to have purely physical affairs than purely emotional ones. Additionally, most men don’t need a reason to cheat other than just wanting some more action. I’m sure there are a fair amount of guys looking for affirmation and stuff like that, but truth be told the sexual aspect of things is the driving force for 90% of cheating husbands.
Women, however, are a whole different story.
Cheating women almost always need a reason to cheat, except in the most extreme instances of sexual boredom. If your wife is cheating on you, then you’re virtually guaranteed that she’s got a reason for it outside of simple sexual satisfaction.
This is one of the most overlooked signs of cheating out there.
I’m not saying your suspicions aren’t probably correct (Statistics say there’s about an 85% chance that you’re gut is spot on), I’m just saying that you really need to carry out this investigation with a ‘cold shoulder’, if you will, and this is one of the things that’s going to help you with that.
You just have to figure out WHY exactly she’s cheating. Which is exactly what I’m about to tell you.
Why is Your Wife Cheating on You?
One of the best ways to tell if your wife is cheating is to examine your relationship for the past couple months. Have you and your spouse had any fights? Has your wife had any strange behavior anytime in the past couple months that you can remember?
There are two options here:
She’s Cheating On You for Revenge
In this scenario your wife is cheating on you purely because she feels that you deserve to be cheated on, or she deserves another lover. In this situation your partner has chosen to hurt you instead of communicate any problems with you.
Here are some common reasons for cheating:
- She’s certain that you’re having an affair, so she cheats
- She resents your for some random past event
- She resents you for a boring marriage
- She’s bored in the marriage and so she blames you
- She feels like you don’t pay enough attention to her
Notice that in all of these examples, your wife feels affronted in some way, places the blame on you, and then instead of talking to you about it she just has an affair instead. That’s why one of the biggest warning signs of a cheating wife is when she emotionally distances herself from you.
So in this instance, your answer to the question “How do I know if my wife has cheated?”
Answer #1 – Be on the look out for sudden changes in her demeanor.
The point here is that your wife interprets her feelings as YOUR FAULT, and then has the affair. The step where she blames you is very important to this type of extramarital relationship.
Hint: If you know your wife’s female friends, that’s one of the best ways to get information on how your wife really feels about you. If she’s cheating, then chances are her friends will know about it.
Typically this type of affair builds up over time, and eventually your wife’s un-dealt-with emotions will turn into an affair of their own accord.
Whether or not your wife premeditates the actual cheating, In this situation you really need to question what your marriage is worth. Clearly your wife has some communication problems, or she’s just really vindictive.
Once you get proof of her cheating, you’ll really need to question whether or not you want to continue the marriage. In my opinion, her behavior is inexcusable, but that’s just me.
She’s Cheating On You Because She’s Confused
When your wife blames you and then commits infidelity, that’s cheating for revenge.
When your wife blames herself and then commits infidelity, that’s cheating out of confusion.
Here are some examples:
- Your wife is unhappy with her life, in an attempt to make herself feel better she has an affair
- Your wife thinks that she married too young and she wants to experience the world,
- She’s using the affair to try and ‘force’ confrontation so she can ask for divorce
- She’s trying to take control of her life or her marriage by cheating
- Your wife thinks that you don’t love her, so she cheats to feel loved
- She’s become bored in life and can’t stand it, so she cheats
- Your wife is going through a mid life crisis and so she cheats
You’ll notice that in all of these examples, YOU are not the core motivating factor behind her affair. SHE is the one with the problem, and SHE thinks that the only solution to her problem is to cheat.
Again, a total lack of communication leads to cheating. If your wife had just talked to you about the problems she was having you guys probably could have come to some solution!
If you and your girl decide to try and continue the marriage after this affair, you’re really going to want to address the obvious trust issues in the relationship.
If You Want to Know How to Tell if Your Wife is Cheating…
Then the Next Step is Getting Cold, Hard Proof!
Are you REALLY serious about learning how to tell if your wife is cheating? Are you SURE that you want to find out the truth about your wife?
Up until now we’ve just been assuming that she’s having an affair, but now is the time where you’re going to find out for real.
Brace yourself. You’ll never be able to turn back from this moment.
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Either way you choose, thanks for reading! Feel free to browse some more of the articles on our site to get more information and find out if she’s cheating on you.
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