Are you struggling to move past your spouse’s infidelity?
Is your “Road to recovery” taking a lot longer than expected?
Believe it or not, I’m going to be the first one to tell you that not everyone should stay together after an affair. I truly believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater”, and the statistics support that quote too. Sometimes it’s just better to get divorced / break up / separate / whatever.
That being said, I do believe that where there is a will there is a way, but it’s going to require the cooperation of both you and your spouse. In this section of SignsCheating.com I’m going to do my best to give you all the advice that I can regarding how to forgive an affair.
My goal here is to help you identify not only why your spouse decided to commit adultery, but what types of roadblocks that are likely to face throughout recovery as well. Hopefully with careful planning, commitment, love and a God-given ability to forgive, you can begin taking the steps necessary towards a renewed marriage.
Many people try to make their way back from infidelity, and as I said before most people DO fail (most of the time because their partner cheats again), but that doesn’t mean that it’s impossible to recover from an affair. If your spouse is unfaithful and know right now that forgiveness IS possible… As long as your spouse wants the same thing as you.
And again, that’s part of what these articles are going to help you understand… What it is that your spouse truly wants from your marriage, and why they had the affair first. Hopefully through this diagnosis you can better understand whether or not it’s really worth it to proceed down the road recovery for to go ahead and sever your relationship now.
If you find yourself in a very unique situation that I didn’t address in this section of the website, I encourage you to have on over to our questions and answers section because there are several pretty unique situations that I address over there. Perhaps you could learn something.
Whatever you do from here, I wish you the best of luck and the strongest of hearts.