Editorial: You can find more information on how to catch a cheating wife by reading the first article I wrote on the subject, where I go in depth on the top 5 places you can find evidence that your wife is cheating on you…I really recommend you read it after you finish this article.
If you’re serious about learning how to detect a cheating wife, continue reading and you’ll learn your wife’s guilty behavior.
If it’s alright with you, I’d like to just go ahead and assume that your wife is having an affair, at least for the rest of this article. Basically, there are 3 phases that every wife goes through when they’re cheating, as detailed below:
Phase #1 – The Guilty Phase
If your wife is cheating on you, then you’re GUARANTEED to see this at least once.
That’s right, at least at some point, your wife is going to feel bad enough about cheating on you to show it. Whether she shows it by being extra affectionate, extra loving, or by giving you a few favors in the bed room (you know what I mean!), your wife is TELLING you that she’s cheating on you.
Most men don’t come to me in this first phase. Most of the time it’s only during the second and third phases that you will become suspicious of your spouse to try and learn – “how to detect my unfaithful wife” .
However, my guess is that you kind of know what I’m talking about. I’m willing to bet that you can think back to some time when your wife was unexplainably nice, and I’m betting that she was going through this phase at the time.
Just think back for a couple months…Has your wife done anything at all out of the ordinary for you?
If she hasn’t, then maybe she’s been cheating on you longer than I thought, or maybe she’s one of the few women who simply don’t feel bad about cheating. This is often the case when a woman has cheated multiple times.
Important! The First Phase Only Happens Once. If your wife has cheated on you multiple times, she’s not going to feel bad about it every time.
Phase #2 – The Rationalization Phase
Basically, the title of this phase says it all…This is when your wife convinces herself that the affair is justified. This is often the most emotional time for your wife.
During this phase your wife is busy trying to figure out what you’ve done in the past to justify being cheated on. Even if she doesn’t know she’s doing it, trust me, your wife is working hard to make her life better.
It’s a simple human defense mechanism: find justification for your actions, and you won’t feel bad.
Obviously, if your wife feels that you deserve to be cheated on then she’s not going to tell you about the affair OR feel any need to stop cheating.
Usually this phase is pretty short…Phase 2 only lasts a little bit until the next phase kicks in.
Phase #3 – Apathetic Rejection
This is when your wife no longer feels bad, and has already made up her mind that she’s NOT going to stop cheating. This is when you really need to be serious about learning to detect a cheating wife.
Your wife has found some action or deed that youv’e done, and has used it to give herself an excuse to continue cheating. Usually this phase is accompanied by a distinct feeling of rejection on your part.
Your wife has probably stopped making any effort around the house. She’s likely become boring and not much fun to hang around with. It probably feels about like she’s GIVEN UP on the marriage.
You may think it’s because of something you did, but it’s not. Not one bit.
Phase #4 – It’s Your Turn; Time to Get Proof
Your marriage is NOT stuck this way. You have the power to end your wife’s affair, and you have the power to end it soon.
However, it’s going to take some effort on your part. You’re going to have to work to dig up proof of your wife’s affair. And that is what we want now…
Luckily, I’ve already got everything you need to do just that. First you’ll want to read this free guide:
Alternatively, if you’re getting tired of me and want to read from someone else, you could always go take a look at this free video that one of my associates put together.
Either way you choose, I thank you for taking the time to read through this article, and I really and truly wish you luck on the road ahead.
Thanks for reading!
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